You should also think about various aspects around the idea of ​​adoption and the possibility of such a realization. You also need to understand that adoption is not like going to a supermarket and buying merchandise. Let me tell you that “adoption is created through loss; without loss, there would be no adoption” (D’Amato 54). As I mentioned earlier, when children are born, some of them are abandoned because either they were not needed at the time by their creators or their parents did not have sufficient means to raise their new life. -submit an application to social assistance or to a host family. Here, children and parents have both suffered loss, child loss or family loss. No matter how you look at it, the child is at a disadvantage. It is this child who must grow up, not the adult. It is this child who will learn that the world is far from being close to its mother's womb, where food and care are provided without sweat or work. The laws of nature governed the growth of this child during the prenatal months, but it is the years to come that he will live alone, respecting the laws of society, which can be quite difficult and traumatic. Describing her life experience, Chanesse reveals that “Even though I suffered, my life is better than it would have been through adoption” (Adoption Changes Lives). Through adoption, we can turn this loss into gain, for the child, for us and for the world in which we live..