Marriage goes through a process to achieve this ideal unity. This is the moment when the shine of marriage fades and becomes more mature, less fantasy. This turns into a phase of installation and starting roots. With those roots and maturity comes a family, children, and a whole host of new experiences and challenges. A once calm and stable relationship is now about to take a rocket to the moon with these new responsibilities, kids. Parental demands and responsibilities invade many aspects of your married life. Jobs become more stressful, finances are crucial, and the learning process is sacrificed, not only for the husband or wife, but also for the children. Essentially, children consume their parents' lives because they are completely dependent on them. With children, the couple has almost no time to spend alone time and even less to have the opportunity to be alone. Parenting is a difficult part of any marriage. More often than not, each parent will have a different view on how their child should be raised. These differences cause conflict, ultimately having differences is part of marriage. If the couple does not continue to remember teamwork and love for each other, the relationship risks a sharp downfall. Lots of weddings I've seen with this fall