IntroductionDivorce is a very widespread phenomenon in our society, Divorce is the separation of the couple for several reasons, Increase in cases of divorce in our society, “The first place is the South Korea and Lithuania. Lithuania is a small country in Europe while South Korea is a country in Asia. Apparently, it seems that the qualities have not put an end to the divorce rates in the respective countries. The divorce rate for both is 3.05 percent” (SiliconIndia, 2012), produces divorce with negative pressure effects on parents and children, as well as child reactions to the death of a parent are not very different from the children's reaction. of divorced parents, even if the child was in contact with his parents.Causes of divorceInitially, there are many causes of divorce, including: Women's lack of interest in themselves, their children and their husbands is an important pillar for the building of the family, attention and decorations are a good thing, but exaggeration is not desirable. Sometimes the woman is preoccupied with the house and the children. She may be preoccupied with attention overload and go to hairdressers, fashion boutiques and beauty salons to maintain her beauty and neglect the home, leading to this behavior. impatience of men and thus lead to divorce. Acquaintance of the wife to marry her husband with a second wife, which cannot afford it if it is jealousy or a feeling of unforgivable offense. Effects of Divorce Divorce is one of the most difficult situations a man experiences. When a man loses his wife and family everything seems to fall apart or fall apart, and when he finds himself alone and there is no help from anyone, he begins to be haunted... in the middle of 'a paper... someone from your family or even your friend, to be a third party, is to try to bridge the gap in points of view between you and find solutions together. In case you have children, know that separation is not easy, neither for you nor for the children, so take this point and your wife participated in the children's affairs Even if you are in a phase of temporary separation . After the solution If things between you have started to reform, you need to follow several things together until you return to normal life, namely: Don't hit your wife to return to your life together quickly and give her time To get your life back to its fullest, try talking more openly with your wife and encourage her to engage in any activities or interests that you enjoy. give her a rose or express your love to her, so that she can gradually forget the hurts caused by her.