Joshua Ackerman, professor at the MIT Sloan School of Management, writes in the Scholarly Journal, Let's Get Serious: Communicating Commitment in Romantic Relations, published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, that some notations Common people thought expressing or communicating love may be incorrect. Declarations of I love you have helped men survive in wars; patients survive life-threatening diagnoses and bring down entire kingdoms. Right now, these words can be a signal of the start of a romantic relationship and indicate a desire to move from casual friendship and involvement to intimacy. In the journal containing information provided by various studies carried out, it shows that most people believe that women are more likely to express their love first in relationships, but it is men who more often express their love verbally . This further shows that men feel happier hearing such confessions. According to the newspaper, men think about saying it a month and a half before women. He says the reason is simple, because they don't face the same type of costs or scalable features. He says men face a higher cost if they miss a romantic opportunity. Men want sex because it's a necessary step in getting their name and heritage out there. Women, as power holders in sexual relationships, need time to assess the quality of their potential partner. reactions should or could be more or less dramatic depending on what the person wants or needs in the relationship. “A confession before sex may signal an interest in moving toward a middle of paper...... themselves to start a family without a husband or lover. In my personal relationship with my wife, I feel like I was thinking about expressing my love before she thought. In the end, I expressed my love to him with the three simple words “I love you”. For a long time I thought I was the exception to the rule because in society everyone hears about the woman who falls in love with the man and he simply can't see the forest because of the trees. This journal has shed new light on the fact that men in general may have a deeper thought and understanding of the concept of love than previously thought. It also helped me understand that using normal publications, newspapers and magazines alone is not enough to make a difference. informed decision on something so important. Their discussions need to be supported with factual information, not something designed to sell to the masses...