When deciding what to do or be in life, a person will think about many things: what college will I attend, what job will I have, how many money will I earn? An important question for success in life is generally left aside in these reflections. That question is “how am I going to get there?” » To truly be a distinguished young woman, I not only need goals, but also an idea of ​​how I am going to achieve them. Throughout my time in the Distinguished Young Women program, I realized the importance of five major qualities that I will need to achieve my goals: being healthy, involved, studious, ambitious and responsible. I firmly believe that if a person uses these characteristics, they will be successful; and successfully, she will become the person she is meant to be: her best self. Being healthy is one of the most important aspects of Be Your Best Self because it encompasses so much of our daily lives. To be described as healthy, I not only have to be physically fit, but also mentally, socially and financially. Being healthy has many benefits. Exercise allows a person to be a happier, calm, energetic and confident person. The same can be said for brain exercise, socializing, and keeping finances in order. By being healthy, I will feel better every day and find fierce determination and discipline in the process. Getting involved in school and community activities should not be a way to impress colleges or to keep busy simply to avoid boredom. Having a pure, selfless need to help others in any way possible is the real reason everyone should get involved. So often in life, people take what they have for granted. Cecilia Ahern said: “The weather cannot be wrapped up, wrapped up and left under the trees for Christmas morning. Time cannot be given. But it can... middle of paper ...... it's thinking about picking up a gallon of milk from the store or showing up to school every day. It can also be difficult, like dealing with the consequences of making a mistake when accepting a summer job. Being responsible means accomplishing the tasks you agree to do, no matter how difficult or simple they may seem. To be a distinguished young woman, you have to be exceptional. Although people love to pursue distinction all their lives, most are afraid of it. They are afraid of the work they will have to do, the challenges they will have to overcome and the responsibility that will fall on them. Every person is special from birth; However, true leaders are able to harness the unique gifts they have been given and become extraordinary human beings. For the rest of my life, I will pursue the elusive idea that we all hold dear: becoming my best self..