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Essay / Divorce in Children's Lives - 850
Divorce is becoming more and more common among couples today. It is sad to know that most divorce cases involve children. Divorce affects parents but it affects children much more. Divorce has a huge impact on children, often causing the development of depression, rebellion or inspiration/motivation, and can become a permanent aspect of their lives. When two parents decide to divorce, their children acquire a very difficult pill to swallow. The idea of Mom and Dad no longer being together and living with just one of them could potentially cause drastic changes in him. The very concept of divorce also makes it difficult for parents. Because of the way children are affected, parents face potential relationship difficulties with their children. Research has been done and the effects of divorce differ depending on the current age and life stage of the children. (Österreich) Regardless of their age, many children feel that divorce is their fault. Also hoping to save the marriage, some children work to improve their behavior. Another commonality among children facing divorce is that of rebellion. One may lose respect for one or both parents, acquire hatred or dislike toward them, or act to gain attention, without having had any, due to the importance of the divorce. Everything that the child was doing can stop and, conversely, start. Not only do parents deal with their children's rebellion, but often friends, teachers, the law, or coaches end up getting involved as well. Rebellious children often get into trouble. Drug addictions become increasingly likely, accompanied by criminal behavior and sometimes sexual involvement. "Adolescent... middle of paper ... these are children who suffer greatly from depression, rebellion, or inspiration/motivation that subsequently occurs in their lives. No matter how hard a child tries to act as if they feel no effects from mom and dad's separation, divorce inevitably affects them. Every divorce is different from every other divorce and also affects each child uniquely. Some are impacted in a positive way, but most of the time it imposes negative consequences on them. Regardless of the effect, every child needs someone to unconditionally stay by their side throughout their time of need. Because every divorce is as unique as a human fingerprint, no divorce ever comes with an instruction manual on how to handle this or how to avoid that, nor does it provide an easy way to handle the devastating blows he inflicts on children, in particular. if we take it head on in solitude.